How to make decisions

TechLead - How to make hard choices (as a millionaire)

Jeff Bazos: Regret minimization strategy. When you make a decision, you make a list of potential regrets you leave on the table.

End of day there is no right or wrong. Write your own story.

Make your own decisions. Yes you can follow what oters tell you but then you wont really be living life. Youll be following a story someone else made for you. Know that life is kind of like desaster, so rather than being a passanger in a car driving off a clift, might as well be the one in the drivers seat driving off a clift.

References: YouTube - TechLead - How to make hard choices (as a millionaire)

Dilemma vs Problems

Problems are solvable. There are expected and desired outcomes for problems.

Dilemmas, do not have a right answer. With a dilemma you have to figure out the values and properties that you think matters and do your best to optimize for those as outcomes.

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