Make Someone Feel Extraordinary

Forge - How to Make Someone Feel Extraordinary by Saying Very Little

  1. Demonstrate your interest in the person
    • “If you want someone to know you’re interested in them, don’t tell them. Let them make the conclusion themselves from the actions you take and the body language you exhibit.”
  2. If you want someone to know you’re interested in them, don’t tell them. Let them make the conclusion themselves from the actions you take and the body language you exhibit.
  3. Show someone they’re capable of more than they believe.

Summary:

  1. Your actions, not words, demonstrate a desire to learn about someone.
  2. Whenever possible, use reversals to gather information and keep the conversation focused on them.
  3. Use that knowledge to point out the greatness they never knew they possessed.

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